Gay Marriage and Division of the GBL Community
Gay marriage is definitely an issue our entire world community is debating. Even communities and countries where one side has claimed victory still debate the issue heatedly. Recently, South Africa joined the four other countries that have legalized homosexual marriage. The Netherlands was the first to do so in 2001, with Belgium following suit in 2003. Both Canada and Spain began performing gay marriages in 2005. (Source: Wikipedia.org)
There is even deep division and even indifference on the issue within the GBL community itself. This division and lack of full GBL community support seriously jeopardizes any major strides and advances in this culture war.
Regardless of personal views on marriage, it is ultimately a multi-faceted institution. Portions of marriage are absolutely government-sanctioned whereas other aspects of marriage are definitely religious and spiritual in nature. Therefore, personal views of a religious nature as well as issues of civil rights play a role in defining marriage.
Freedom from religion and equality are what the United States originally was founded. Equality was certainly not all-inclusive at the birth of this republic, as blacks and women were obviously ignored with regards to holding any power or position within the government.
However, those mistakes were eventually rectified through the amending of the U.S. Constitution. Countries across the globe have over the last few years done similar recalibrations to begin the elimination of double standards in government-sanctioned marriage, simultaneously strengthening concepts of equality and justice for all.
With the premise that marriage is a government institution that carries not only government benefits but also potential personal costs, it seems logical to realize that all relationships of that caliber are deserving of the same rights and the same detriments. On a deeply personal level, confusion, doubt and misinformation are quite problematic to this civil rights issue. Additionally, personal views are not going to change much within any single generation. Therefore, the issue of expanding and limiting marriage will be fervently discussed and legislated for at least the next two decades throughout the global community.
Despite the personal nature of the issue of marriage, should one specific group, sect or generation impose their personal views on these critical social concepts on the population as a whole? If you aren’t in the majority, the answer is never as clear as some civil rights activists would prefer.
Portions of minority communities will always reach out to the majority by acting, behaving and even thinking as the majority does. These community elements oftentimes act against their own best interests hoping to better fit into society. This explains at least a portion of the division in the GBL community on the marriage issue.
The clarification of the rights of marriage along with a community education on the consequences of potential legislation at both the state and federal level is necessary to increase unity within the GBL community as well as the community-at-large on the issue of gay marriage.
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