As a month of Pride festivals comes to a close, the issue of ultimate acceptance has began to be the object of numerous conversations of GBLT people. It is a common theme that appears throughout the lives of most people in the gay community. For that matter most minority groups struggle with majority acceptance; it is not just a gay issue.
Acceptance is an idea; it is not something concrete nor constant that you know you absolutely have. Therefore, if you ask for acceptance from the community-at-large you will nearly always be disappointed with the outcomes.
Take, for instance, the civil rights fight of the African-American community. Their fight very much continues today with regards to public opinion, although it has improved greatly over the years. Much has been accomplished for black Americans, with civil rights laws being enacted to protect them, at least legally, from outright discrimination. However, there is still much progress to be made.
The minute a person asks for acceptance, it allows for open non-acceptance. No matter what, that non-acceptance will be present. It is just critical to not give this bigotry an open door for declaring their views and rallying their troops.
Demanding equality, demanding civil rights should be the preferred method. Equality and civil rights are much more concrete and ultimately attainable than the fight for acceptance will ever be. Concentrating efforts in that way will yield much more positive results ultimately.
And you can Quote me on that. The Quotable Queer